Forgiveness is not saying you forgive a person and then everytime they make a mistake or you get angry, you through what you supposedly forgave them for in their face.
Forgiveness is not saying that what the person did is okay, either.
Forgiveness is acknowledging something didn’t go right and releasing that person or situation from guilt or blame.
If forgiveness is not something you can grant than you need to move on, especially if this is a relationship you’re in. No one who is truly working on improving their life from the lessons of the past deserves to be reminded of something they can’t change.