You’ve put work into this goal and it didn’t go the way you wanted. In fact, it was a complete and utter flop. And you probably feel like you are back at square one.
After you are done mourning, berating and feeling sorry for yourself, don’t ditch the efforts you put in this. Go back and see where you went wrong, and it’s not in having the idea in the first place or the belief you can have it. Think: “How can I adjust my strategy this time? Keep refining and re-evaluating until you get what you are after.